Dear Dr. Beth, I am a 53 year old man, married with 3 grown kids. I have lived in this area a long time and I have a lot of friendships that have developed over the years. Most of my friends are married or divorced and have kids too. Some are guys I hang out and go fishing with and other friends are couples that my wife and I socialize with. It seems like lately a lot of my friends, coworkers, and friends of friends seem to be dealing with cancer and other serious health problems. We seem too young to be having friends so seriously ill and dying. It really depresses me and stresses me out. How do I deal with this?