Dr. Beth, I am writing because  “downsizing” is the problem that is foremost in my mind recently. However, how do you do this when your adult children have to move back in with you and they bring all of their stuff?  I feel like I am drowning, having to walk around boxes and storage space at a minimum. Neither the kids nor us have enough money to rent a storage space. I would love to downsize. I feel helpless and weighted down. How do I cope?