Dr. Beth, My partner and I have been involved for almost two years and we have decided to move in together.  As is true of many lesbian couples, we both have dogs. Our dogs play together well and have spent quite a bit of time at both of our homes. But we have somewhat different styles of “parenting” our dogs. I will be moving in to her house and I’m wondering how to deal with the conflicts that may arise around feeding, exercise and discipline and other differences in our styles of being with our animals?