Dr. Beth, I am a single woman in my 40s.  I was married for 16 years, but now I am divorced.  Even though my ex-husband and I didn’t get along in a lot of ways and grew apart, for the most part the physical side of our relationship was really good.  I am a very physical person and I miss having touch and sex in my life.  I don’t have any good relationship prospects in my life and I wouldn’t be ready for one right now anyway.  How can I meet these needs in a healthy way without jumping into the wrong relationship?