Dear Dr. Beth, My husband and I have two children, a girl 14 and a boy 16. They are terrific children. They are both above average students, involved in school athletics and a few other activities. Basically, we have no complaints. We love our children. A couple of weeks ago our son told us that he is gay. It was a total shock to both my husband and me. He doesn’t look or act gay. We are both pretty upset, but want to be supportive. How do we respond to him?