Dear Dr. Beth, I’m in a relationship with someone I love very much. We both work full-time and overall we have a very good relationship. The main problem I am dealing with is that I think my partner is workaholic. He is really awesome at his job and I respect that, but he works anywhere from 50-70 hours a week. Although I think he really loves me, we really don’t get a lot of time together and I’m frustrated. When I bring it up he gets defensive. How do I talk to him about this?