Dr. Beth,   I have a great partner relationship with my husband. We have been married for 10 years and he is a great guy. We share household responsibilities and parenting. We enjoy the same activities. We have the same values. My question is: what about being in love?  We were in love when we married and that feeling seemed to last for several years. Now, I still love him but I seldom feel “in love”.   Is this how marriage is supposed to be?