Dr. Beth, I am writing because I am really confused and upset about how to approach my daughter. I found out from looking at the history of recent website visits on the family computer that she has been looking up sites about sex, contraception, and similar topics. My daughter is 17 and has a boyfriend that I like (he is also 17) and she has been dating him for about 7 months. She has not mentioned one word to me about wanting to have sex and I am hurt because I always left the door open for her to talk to me openly about this subject. I’m also scared for her. What do I do?