Dear Dr. Beth: Lately, I haven’t been able to spend as much time with my girlfriend as I want to. When I think of her–which is all the time–my mind wanders to intimacy. I’m worried that she might start to think that I only want her for her body, but my feeling is that making love to her and pleasing her is the best way I have to express how deeply I love her. I would love to know your opinion. Thanks! A Devoted Reader.