Dr. Beth, I was raised Catholic and I was told all my life that sex was sinful, bad and dirty.  Unlike a lot of girls in my generation, I actually did decide not to have sex until I was married.  I was fortunate that I found a great guy who shares my social and religious values and we waited to have sex until we got married last year. I was 21 and he was 23.  The problem is that now that it is OK to have sex (I’m married and with someone I love), I can’t seem to get over the feeling that sex is wrong and bad.  I can’t enjoy sex and seldom want to have it.  My husband is getting very frustrated and so am I. Any suggestions?