Spice up the romance_Question Date Published: May 27th, 2016 Categories: Blog Tags: couple therapy, couples sex therapy, Couples Sex Therapy Loveland, emotionally focused couple therapy Hi Dr. Beth, My wife and I have been married for 33 years. We both love and respect each other greatly, but I feel like the marriage is stuck in a rut. What are some ways to spice things up a little and bring back the romance?